Overcoming the Need to Overcome: Why “bad” things happen to good people.

As a person who recognizes, practices and teaches the law of attraction (cause and effect) I understand that everything in our reality is a reflection of our vibrational frequency…Or let’s say the vibrational frequency we choose to dance with most of the time.

When I  am asked — and I often ask myself — “Why do bad things happen to good people?” The first message from spirit is, ”There is NO good or bad, only experiences.” That’s all well and good in spirit realm, but as an experiential being, the less painful or bad things happening in my life the better!

We humans also love to analyze our way through life so here’s my explanation of it from the point of how I understand  universal laws.

Let’s take the instance all the “victims” in the mass shooting in Vegas. If I again, am expressing from the context to vibrational resonance, the victims were actually not victims at all. They were all heroes. All of them collectively vibrated at such a frequency that they chose: the vibration of the “need to win” (now go with me here, it’s not a consciously motivated vibration, it’s for lack of a better way to describe it, a karmically motivated vibration) That those 22,000 people (because all of them were included in the waves of vibration of that particular experience) were there to balance out the energy of hate (darkness / shadow) that this one man’s actions represented when he made the choice to act in the moment. These people energetically (spiritually / karmically) made a commitment to sacrifice themselves for the greater good:  bringing light to the darkness. All of them collectively brought this lower vibration to light to be healed.

Now let’s take an example of this happening to an individual – let’s say someone is falsely accused of something.

When someone is moving through this form of experience in life, this person is unconsciously creating events to overcome so they can feel the vibration of victory. Basically they are, through the desire to be a hero unknowingly formulating opportunities to prove they are worthy of being a hero or winner through a vibrational frequency of sacrifice. They haven’t become hip to the knowledge that they don’t need to sacrifice to be the winner!

The only way to change the story line when you are in this projected effect is to become consciously made aware of it, take responsibility for it (with no judgement) and then deliberately set a different intentional frequency (through visualizations and other tools) where you are victorious without having to first be a victim.

In order to have a fully expressed life we need cure our dependency on overcoming and the perverted need for victory. This belief is an archaic distorted masculine concept that has had us assuming there is lack in the universe. I have news for you! We have entered into an age of thriving, where survival is a given, where winning is absolute, and all we need do is choose individually and collectively how we continue to evolve.

Published by Stacey Justis

I am a spiritual intuitive, musician, writer, tarot card reader, energy healer and lover Listed in Goop Guide as“Refreshingly laid-back and smart, equal parts straight-up psychic and intuitive life coach.”

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